I am Paul Melvin’s daughter (the youngest of the Melvin clan) and I have just read your kind words about my dad. You are absolutely correct… he was one of a kind and there is not another like him in the whole world. I am thrilled that your life was touched by his. Please let me share her some words that I was able to share at his funeral. And may God bless you,

Pam Gast

My dad was a copywriter. He expressed himself best in writing; a fact he expressed to all of his children when he wrote us each letters over the years, sharing his love for us, words of wisdom, or encouragement for a situation in our lives. So I now turn to the blank page to express myself in the way my father did…. in writing.

I think you would agree that to meet my dad was to remember him forever. He had a way of making an indelible imprint on every life he touched – I dare say, even some lives of people who to this day do not know my dad’s name. He was an “entertainer” and a people-person, who wouldn’t hesitate to strike up a conversation with a stranger as if they were old friends. I remember a time when some of us in the family had had lunch at the Perkins Restaurant. As we were walking from our table to the cash register, my dad stopped at a table at which were seated one man and several women, all somewhat advanced in years. He surveyed the situation for a moment and then said to the gentleman, “I just want to know how a guy like you managed to be seated at this table surrounded by all of these beautiful women!” The man grinned and all of the women laughed, obviously flattered. Dad laughed with them, and good-naturedly slapped the man on the back as if they were old buddies, and then moved on. We all paid our bills, and Dad and I made our way outside. Once in the parking lot, he said, “Now see. Those people were all sitting at that table, and not one of them had a smile on their face. But with one little comment, all the faces were smiling and laughing, and if for only one moment, they all forgot their cares and worries.” So that was his big mission. In his own small, goofy way, he went about making people happy, if only for a moment. What a guy…..

But there was more to him than that. He was intelligent, creative, serious and fun-loving. I have consulted my dad on important decisions throughout my adult life, watched him genuinely encourage my husband as if Greg was his own son, enjoyed seeing him help my daughter Bethany create an advertisement for the best candy bar, but also watched him learn the latest hip-hop dance with my children (by the way, he plays a mean air guitar!). He wasn’t perfect, but he was amazing.

As he stated in a letter to me once, he and my mother did their best to raise all of us in a Christian home, although he openly admitted that he felt our mother did a much better job of this than he did. Although my dad was well aware of his limitations and flaws, his faith in a loving, restoring God was deep and abiding. He loved the apostle Paul and his writings, not just because they shared a name, but because they shared the struggles of living the Christian life. And he believed the words of Jesus when he said, “Without me, you can do nothing,” a scripture that has been displayed on a piece of paper in the corner of a painting of The Last Supper in his home for almost thirty years. But he also believed a scripture that he encouraged Randy and me to memorize when we were children: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” In those two scriptures, interestingly enough, is the Gospel in a nutshell. Without Christ, we are nothing, but with Him all things are possible.

Now a word to my family, and all of those who will miss my dad and would love to see him again. I believe he would say to each of us, “Be there!” Only a few days before my father’s hospitalization, we were making plans together, and he tagged to the end of our plans, “if the good Lord wills.” When a few nights later my dad was admitted to the hospital, I stayed with him overnight the first night. As the night grew long, and in spite of being a bit anxious about his present circumstances, he said to me, “I’m not afraid. I am in the hands of the Great Physician. I’ll get out of here one way or another.” His faith in Christ assured him of his eternal destination, and it is my prayer that each one of us surrenders our lives to Christ so that we, too, can have that same assurance.

I share my father’s faith in God. But it was not religious training or flawless example that enabled me to easily embrace the saving grace of Jesus Christ. It was the incredible example of strength, character and deep love that I found in my dad that made believing in a loving Heavenly Father so natural and easy. Thanks again, Dad.