Enjoying oneself in life—as in sex—depends on being able to take a step back and not take yourself so goddamn seriously. If you’re finding yourself beaten down or depressed, or anxious, or overwhelmed, or over-critical, or self-destructive, just hold your damn horses for a minute and lighten up. LIGHTEN! UP!
Don’t look so stern. Smile.
Stop trying [...]
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