Your Choice: “Obligatory” Disclaimer

by Megan M. on March 9, 2009 · View Comments (Blog) |

I’ve been wondering for a long time when it would be important to clarify this, and as it turns out, now’s the time. This is very important:

You’re the one who decides whether I’m talking to you.

You’re the one who decides whether the things I say are relevant, whether they apply to you and your circumstances. It’s up to you to decide whether it’s right and appropriate for you to act on them. The fact that I’ve said them is a very small part of the equation. (In fact, it pretty much means nothing at all.)

You’re the only one who can make decisions about how you live your life. I can’t do it for you—I couldn’t if I wanted to. (And I don’t.)

The truth is, most of my blogging here is an exercise in talking to myself. I started out doing this for me, and I still am—even though there is now an amazing group of incredibly appreciative people that I keep in mind when I think about what I should write next. Still, I’m writing for my own sake.

If you’re listening, please listen for yours.

So if we’re talking about obligation, yes, I do feel obligated—in a truly positive way—to experience bonkers, amazing growth in a whole ton of different ways. I realize that the strange contrast between that positive obligation and other “obligations” I perceive as negative is absolutely nuts. But for now, that positive obligation is important to me. When I write here, I’m speaking to the people who resonate on my frequency. If you don’t, find something else that makes you feel good, helps you solve problems, teaches you more about yourself, and leads you in the right direction (for you).

My job is to say what I think. If it’s useful, run with it. If it’s not, let it go. If you get something out of it, stick around. If you don’t, go on about your business. We’re cool. :}

  • Stephen - Rat Race Trap
    Megan, I write for myself first and then additionally for others. I am also talking to myself on my blog. It's a very powerful growth exercise.
  • CoCreatr
    My Choice: "Voluntary" Reply.


    make that "Voluntary Reply".

    Oh, the issues with placement of squiggles. Is that what they call "diacritical" marks?

    Written for my own sake. And yours, whoever chooses to read this.

    May your day be a bit brighter.
  • Ragen Chastain
    Awesome, this totally clarifies things for me. You rock!
  • Megan M.
    Neat! I'm very curious to know more in depth what your perception was, whenever you get the chance. This stuff is super interesting to me. ^_^
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